Drowning in debt… any advice?

I’m in a tough spot right now with around $25,000 in credit card debt across multiple cards, some maxed out. I co-signed a personal loan that still has $14,000 left, and I owe around $16,000 on my car loan. I also owe about $4,300 to my orthodontist and have a timeshare that’s costing me close to $12,000.

I’m able to make all my payments on time but can’t seem to make a dent in my debt because of the high interest. I feel like I’m living paycheck to paycheck, struggling to cover even basic expenses. I’ve thought about selling my belongings or getting a side job like Uber/Lyft, but that may not be enough.

The timeshare payment goes onto a maxed-out credit card each month, and my braces are on a care credit card that’s almost maxed out too. Debt consolidation sounds like it could help, but I’d still be left using those cards.

Not sure where to go from here or how to start climbing out of this debt. Any advice on making some extra money or tips for managing this would be much appreciated.

Two things you could consider:

  1. Bankruptcy is an option if you’re open to it.

  2. Get on a computer and start tracking every payday on a spreadsheet. Set up a row for each paycheck over the year, then list out your main bills like rent, utilities, car payments, and credit cards. Start by covering essentials, then whatever is left can go to paying down your smallest credit card or loan first.

This forum doesn’t allow tables, but I’d be happy to help you set up a budget structure if you need tips.

@Kai
And just a heads up, the formulas might vary depending on the software you use for the spreadsheet.

Man, they really got you with that timeshare… that’s rough.

Lyle said:
Man, they really got you with that timeshare… that’s rough.

I don’t get how those timeshares are even legal since they rarely work out as promised.

Sloane said:

Lyle said:
Man, they really got you with that timeshare… that’s rough.

I don’t get how those timeshares are even legal since they rarely work out as promised.

They got me too a couple of years back. I was lucky to cancel in the grace period. They wanted $15k upfront and $500 every year forever. Never again.

@Marlow
For that kind of money, you could just get a small condo and actually own something.

Lyle said:
Man, they really got you with that timeshare… that’s rough.

What if you buy more weeks and sell those? Would that even help?

Putting a timeshare payment on a credit card sounds like a recipe for debt trouble. You’re paying interest on interest.

Bankruptcy might seem like an option, but unless you change spending habits, you could end up back here. Best bet? Cut your lifestyle down as much as possible, work like crazy, and pay things off step by step. Once you’re out, avoid credit cards and loans, they’re like quicksand.

@Tate
Only two years ago I was totally debt-free… can’t believe I let things get this bad.

Noor said:
@Tate
Only two years ago I was totally debt-free… can’t believe I let things get this bad.

Don’t beat yourself up too much; just start focusing on fixing things. I was in a similar spot and had to say no to a lot to get back on track.

Can you give more details on your income and expenses? Hard to give advice without knowing the full picture.

You might want to talk to a bankruptcy attorney. The co-signed loan could fall on the other person, especially if they’re unable to pay. A lawyer could also give you options for getting rid of the timeshare.

Getting rid of the timeshare might be a good place to start if you can. AARP has a guide with some tips: https://www.aarp.org/money/credit-loans-debt/info-2020/3-ways-to-get-out-of-a-timeshare.html. Could be worth a look.

YNAB (You Need a Budget) offers a free trial and plenty of videos with tips on budgeting. Lots of users in this forum say it’s super helpful. There’s also the r/DaveRamsey method that’s pretty popular, as well as resources like MrMoneyMustache if you need motivation.

@Merritt
The snowball effect from Dave Ramsey really helped me! Having a clear budget and sticking to it was key for me.

Stop paying on the timeshare if you can and cancel that card. When you call, ask for the person handling deed-backs or surrenders, and explain your situation. Some places may take it back for a small fee.

I use Velocity Banking along with the snowball method. Pairing bills with specific credit cards helped me gain control of my payments. The snowball method works well but requires focus and patience.

Start by listing every expense and the interest on each card. If things are so tight you’re not moving forward, it’s time to make a change. Either increase your income or cut back on spending.