Should we save or throw extra money at debt… need advice

My husband and I are planning to buy a house in the next 12-18 months. I have over $100k in student loans (both federal and private). I feel stuck trying to decide if I should use the extra $1,000 we have each month to save for a house down payment or pay off my loans faster.

Right now, I’m thinking of splitting it—$500 toward the loans and $500 into savings. My husband is also saving for the house. Does anyone have advice or experience with buying a house while carrying big student loans? Is it better to focus fully on paying off debt first? Thanks!

I’d follow the Dave Ramsey steps:

  1. Save $1,000 for emergencies
  2. Pay off all debt quickly
  3. Save 3-6 months of expenses
  4. Then save for a house.

I graduated with $50k in student loans and took on other debts like a car loan and credit cards. I thought I was doing okay until I lost my job and faced health issues. I had to sell my house to pay everything off, but now I’m debt-free and working again. It’s a relief not to worry about bills. There will always be houses to buy, but peace of mind is worth more.

@Larkin
Thank you for sharing this. I think you’re right—focusing on paying off debt first will feel better in the long run.

The answer is always to throw extra money at the debt. It will make things easier in the long run.

Think about the cost of houses you’re looking at and how much you’ll need for a down payment. Are you planning to use an FHA loan? You’ll also need to account for moving costs, repairs, and an emergency fund. Once those are covered, it’s a good idea to pay off your student loans as quickly as possible to reduce stress later.

@Campbell
We’re looking at a $350k house and planning to save for an 8-10% down payment with an extra $15k for housing expenses. We’re leaning toward an FHA loan since we’re first-time buyers.

I was in a similar situation years ago. We had student loans, some other debt, and decided to buy a house. We ended up selling it later to pay everything off, rented for a few years, and saved for a solid down payment.

The stress relief from being debt-free was incredible. Now we live debt-free, pay off our credit cards monthly, and save for big purchases. If you can save enough for a 15- or 20-year mortgage with low debt, the savings in interest will be worth it.

When applying for a mortgage, lenders often calculate student loan payments as 1% of the total loan balance. So, even if your actual payment is lower, they may assume a higher amount for qualification purposes.

@Keaton
This is really helpful info—thank you for sharing!

Make sure to save for emergencies before buying a house. Unexpected repairs like an HVAC replacement can cost thousands. I’ve been there, and even with insurance, it was a big out-of-pocket expense. It’s better to be prepared.

Paying off my debt gave me peace of mind that was worth more than anything else. The stress relief alone made it worth it.

Depending on your loan rates, it might be worth saving in a high-yield account and paying the loans down slowly while you prioritize buying a house. It’s also a good idea to consult a mortgage broker to see how your student loans will affect your mortgage application.

@Westley
We’re meeting with a mortgage broker next month—hopefully, that will give us more clarity!

If you’re disciplined with money, you can balance saving and paying off debt. If not, it’s better to stick to a simple plan like the Dave Ramsey method to get rid of debt first.

Pay off the debt as fast as you can. It’s not going anywhere and will feel like a weight lifted once it’s gone.